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Six tips to facilitate the education of your children

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There are simple things if we follow it, we will find that we are in spite of all the challenges of education we are better able to deal with what we are going through with our children ... which of these methods you follow?

1. Come down to the level of your child
Of the most important things to remember when communicating with our children are down to their level and direct look in their eyes when you talk to them. You feel your child's importance and value, you take his attention to you better and you show him how mush your serious with him. You may need time to get used to not throw commands from the other room to make a difference when you see change.

2. Answer by YES!
support your desire to make everything complete and answer by yes whenever you can, dreamy or impossible requests of our children, what will happen to answered yes? Our children will learn from their experiences and we learn with them .. And most importantly you give your child feeling as positive and receptivity, and this in turn contributes greatly to encourage them to cooperate with you and modify his behavior. Even when the answer is no, Ajebe answers that positive like "Mom Can I go to the park?" "Yes, at the weekend."

3. Make a book of positive actions
When you find one of your children has been stuck in a downward spiral of bad behavior that your are looking to change it so this idea will help you. Ask your kids  to prepare a book about a certain behavior and positive ways to change it. Let them trim their leaves and cover and past it together. The book was named as the act is linked. For example, "When I get angry."
Story: your name or your child's name.
Graphics: your child's name.

Add you and your child's sentence for each page, such as:

On page 1: My name is Ahmed was 4 years. I like to play and laugh a lot.
On page 2: Sometimes I am happy and I love to laugh and have fun.
Page 3: sometimes angered much like when .... and .... and when I feel like screaming and beatings.
Page 4: But was 4 years, and I grew up and I can not behave significantly cooled even when angered.
Page 5: When angered smite the earth with my feet firmly.
Page 6: When angered breathe 5 times.
Page 7: When angry count to 10.

So .. Let your baby paints a painting on each page linked including Ketbtoh them. Stay simple and short book even benefit your child. Read the book all the time, and especially before the times do you expect to get the behavior. You can use it for any act was only Focus on what you want your child to do and what not to do the wrong way.

4. Use dialogue

teach your kids a way to resolve disputes (problem solving), rather than imposing something on them all and punish them, or unable to stand up in front of them. show  them the problem from your point of view and begin collecting solutions together, note it on paper and then start removing solutions that do not fit one of you even come up joint resolve. After a while you will find that your children become possess the ability to debate and respond to solve problems rather than acting passively.

5. Limit the House Law to participate
Scientific kids that participation is not forcing people to give up what his hand just because we want people to use but they must respect the wishes of others and remember what they end up giving it to others, for example, like games. There are things you can not leave your child uses as much as he wants,

6. Do not be afraid feelings
Often feel threatened, discomfort and helplessness when our children show emotions such as anger, hatred and jealousy sadness etc .. These feelings are part of every human being and to be the only thing we have to do is accept it and quietly confident and determine the unacceptable act for the emergence of these feelings.  anger because of it or deny our children lose their sense of confidence and feel what drives them to more confusion ..

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