A child have many mental and emotional needs to satisfy them for the best growth and psychological balance to him and immunity from psychological and behavioral disorders, among these needs child's need for acceptance, this need, which is linked to the most important psychological need, namely love. I think it was the first thing we must to talk about it but not too bad we talk about that later. So you as a child care provider you must know the consequences for failure to satisfy the needs of the child, this will help you more in the way of his education and build character.
All we know that the most annoying behaviors or troubled behaviors that we see in a child caused by not satisfy his psychological belongings if not most of them, or because they are mostly linked with each other closely. A child is not acceptable (need unsaturated) or to transfer it feels non-acceptance to him, the first feature of him is the lack of self-confidence in their abilities and feel always concerned, tension and turmoil, so he show a negative behaviors and troubled and troublesome is also a result of lack of psychological equilibrium, including: introverted, a sense of helplessness, lying, aggression and violence, stubbornness, vindictiveness, vandalism and some mental illnesses like stuttering problem,fear and bed wetting. He refused to wake up, for example, or washing hands, do not go to kindergarten or school and also refusing to change clothes, but all that are negative attitudes of the child may be caused by not satisfy their needs, especially the need for love and acceptance.
"When you show your trouble from the hardship of education seems to the child as if he resented his presence and expression of non-acceptance"
Our children loves us because we offer them unconditional love, and for love we accept them for what they are, and it should not be our acceptance of them linked to their achievements and failures, because the child is sometimes accepted and rejected by the other sometimes gives him a sense of vacillation and lack of confidence and your acceptance for your child means to do all the behaviors that made him feel accepted, because it's enough that your baby be acceptable for you, but more importantly, how to make him feel that he is acceptable.
All we know that the most annoying behaviors or troubled behaviors that we see in a child caused by not satisfy his psychological belongings if not most of them, or because they are mostly linked with each other closely. A child is not acceptable (need unsaturated) or to transfer it feels non-acceptance to him, the first feature of him is the lack of self-confidence in their abilities and feel always concerned, tension and turmoil, so he show a negative behaviors and troubled and troublesome is also a result of lack of psychological equilibrium, including: introverted, a sense of helplessness, lying, aggression and violence, stubbornness, vindictiveness, vandalism and some mental illnesses like stuttering problem,fear and bed wetting. He refused to wake up, for example, or washing hands, do not go to kindergarten or school and also refusing to change clothes, but all that are negative attitudes of the child may be caused by not satisfy their needs, especially the need for love and acceptance.
"When you show your trouble from the hardship of education seems to the child as if he resented his presence and expression of non-acceptance"
Our children loves us because we offer them unconditional love, and for love we accept them for what they are, and it should not be our acceptance of them linked to their achievements and failures, because the child is sometimes accepted and rejected by the other sometimes gives him a sense of vacillation and lack of confidence and your acceptance for your child means to do all the behaviors that made him feel accepted, because it's enough that your baby be acceptable for you, but more importantly, how to make him feel that he is acceptable.
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